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Back to School | 10 Tips to Get Your Mind Right and House in Order

Growing up, I don’t ever remember going back to school prior to Labor day. While there are still school districts that abide by this trusty rule others are opting for earlier start times, to allow for more breaks during the school year.

July 30th marks the end of  2 months of relaxation and no schedules and begins ten months of everything but. My children are heading back to the classroom and while a small part of me rejoices the other part of me is getting mentally prepared for all that going back to school entails and it includes more than shopping for school supplies and clothing.

Need some motivation? Here are 10 tips to help you get your mind right and your house in order for back to school:

PURGE

Throw ALL of the too little, no longer useful and unnecessary things away. From clothes, to broken crayons, to hair bows. If it’s broken, hasn’t been used or is no longer useful. Throw it away.

CREATE A STORAGE SYSTEM FOR SCHOOL WORK, CRAFTS, ETC.

Oh, the papers. I’m thankful for one in middle school that brings home minimal paperwork, but with one still in elementary, art work and a lot of junk stuff still manages to make its way home.

Setting aside a folder or a space to store these things make it easier to sort through later…. you know, the part where you decide on which art pieces get to stay and the ones you will toss when little eyes aren’t looking.

Here’s how I keep up with school work. 

CREATE A SEPARATE EMAIL FOR SCHOOL CORRESPONDENCE

I can’t stress this one enough. It has been so helpful having one email address dedicated to my children and their teachers and extracurricular activities. It keeps me in the loop, and things like turning in field trip money doesn’t get mixed in with my Target emails.

I even made it cute with emojis.

ORGANIZE HAIRBOWS, ACCESSORIES AND OTHER SMALL ITEMS

Dollar Tree Organization

Nothing creates stress like a bunch of little things just out and about. Corral those bows, hair pins, earrings etc. The Dollar Tree has exactly what you need to keep those things together so you know where to find them when you need them.

This $10 hair bow organization system has saved my sanity.

CREATE ROUTINES

Everybody needs a routine. What time will you get up, go to bed, cook and eat dinner, get ready for the next day? Not leaving these things to chance helps your day not get away from you. It also holds older kids accountable for doing what they need to do.

Post the routine up if necessary. Trina over at Babyshopaholic has a great morning chart printable for kids to use

SET TIMERS

When I’m moving, I’m just that. I tend to not pay attention to time so this method works for me. I set them for everything. I know when I should be starting dinner, walking out the door to get someone from practice, or when a meeting is set to start. Timers remove one more thing from the to-do list that lives in your head.

MEAL PLAN/COOK AHEAD

This part.

If I didn’t meal plan, we likely wouldn’t eat. I don’t like eating the same thing over and over again so meal planning is important to me.

If you are feeling ambitious, preparing foods ahead of time for a heat and eat option is great for busy mornings. My heat and eat breakfast sandwiches are perfect for having a good breakfast on the go.  Make them at the beginning of the week and be on your way.

PUT THE SCHOOL SCHEDULE IN YOUR PLANNER OR PHONE FOR EASY ACCESS

Go to the school’s website and print out the entire schedule. Place it somewhere for easy access. Take a photo of it and save to your phone, put it in your planner, whatever works best for you. I’ve found this comes in handy when I’m trying to make appointments or schedule something and need to know the school schedule. Having it on hand versus having to look it up every time has been helpful.

CREATE A WEEKLY CHORE CHART

Cleaning the house needs to be a family affair. I tried doing the bulk of the work, and I’ll pass.

I’m still flushing out our new schedule and will share when I’m done. I’m certain the kids will be doing the dishes and folding their own laundry. Please, if your kids are older get them involved.

BULK SHOP FOR SNACKS, DETERGENT AND OTHER HOME ITEMS

Shopping for food and necessities can, and will eat up a lot of your time. Plan your store visits carefully, this not only saves time, it also saves money.

Think about getting a wholesale club membership for things like detergent, lunch snacks and cleaning products. They tend to be much cheaper in bulk and you aren’t shopping seemingly every week for home basics. In an average household paper products and detergent will likely last for three months. It is such a small relief to only have to worry about those things a few times a year versus every few weeks.

I hope these tips are helpful in getting your mind right and your home organized for the back to school rush. Have any you want to add, please do! Sharing is always caring.

Essence Festival
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Girls Trip | Essence Festival

Where have I been? The real question is where haven’t I been. This has been one busy summer for the books. From traveling just about every weekend with Just for Me, to sneaking away to New Orleans for the Essence Festival,  I’ve barely had time to gather my thoughts.

Historically, I’ve always taken a hiatus from creating content here in the summer. Well seeing as how the school bell rings in a little over a week, summer is technically over and it’s time to get back on schedule.

So let’s catch up with my girls trip to the Essence Festival. If you follow me on Instagram and saw my stories you already know we had a ton of fun. I was a little leery about heading to New Orleans in the middle of summer, but to be honest the heat wasn’t that bad. I opted to wear my hair wrapped during the day because I was sure the relentless humidity wouldn’t let my bob be great. That decision really worked well because I didn’t have to worry at all with my hair.

The ride from Atlanta to New Orleans took about 7 hours. To be completely honest there are few things that can set off a girls trip like a good road trip.

Essence Festival

I know every mother isn’t about leaving their kids and heading out of town to decompress and let their hair down for a bit….but I am. Now that we have that out of the way. This mama had a ball.

New Orleans and the Essence Festival doesn’t owe me/us a thing.

Essence Festival

Essence Festival

 

Essence Festival

I am the biggest Erykah Badu fan. I was real hype to go to her concert until I saw the $250 price tag. I was like next time. Luckily we were able to find some last minute tickets for $100. Erykah Badu and Jill Scott on one stage? Yes please. I had a ball with my bestie.

Essence Festival

Initially I hadn’t planned to attend more than one concert. I’m cheap, and $500 on concert tickets wasn’t in the budget. Like the church folk say, “Favor ain’t fair” and there was truly a blessing with my name on it when the Vaseline brand slid into my DMs gifting me free tickets to the Mary J. concert.  Sometimes these little places on the internet are good for something! Since everyone else in my crew had already purchased a ticket to the concert, I asked Tiffini of Latched and Hooked to be my +1. We had a ball! I had no idea Mary J. was such an amazing performer.

Essence Festival

Other than that, we took it easy. Naps were had….cause….nearly 40. We roamed the streets of New Orleans dodging rain drops, catching trolleys, and Lyfts, eating good and enjoying one another.

There were three separate groups of us, at times we all came together and other times we went our separate ways. We were all celebrating the queen in the middle, because breast cancer didn’t win. Life is precious, we should always remember that.

Essence Festival

Essence Festival

Essence Festival

Essence Festival

Essence Festival

I even got a chance to catch up with some of my internet/IG friends.

I’ve been following Carla for  6 years. Seeing her was like connecting with a long lost sister. I’m SO glad I got a chance to hug on her neck! She’s an amazing writer, and well traveled I might add. Check her out on Rae La Soul

Essence Festival

Saw my IG buddy @Peonylova

Essence Festival

….and @effiespaper (she has a super cute line of stationery)

Essence Festival

There are far too many memories, photos and words to describe how much fun we had. This might be an indication tho.

Essence Festival

Simply put, self care is whatever you need it to be. Spending time with my friends has always been important to me and I’m thankful that I have no guilt about taking time to recharge.

Here are a few of my other girls trips:

Cherokee, North Carolina

Jekyll Island

Well, school is on the horizon and I’m readying myself for the hustle and bustle. I’m really glad I took the time to get away and just let loose. Now back to organizing and cooking and cleaning and grocery shopping, and chauffeuring and……

How’s your summer going? Are you planning for back to school yet?

Cherry Cobbler Wine
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Summer Relaxation

This is a sponsored post in partnership with The Motherhood; samples of wine were provided by Oliver Winery.

My children have been shipped off to grandma’s house. They’ve been gone for about a week and won’t be returning for another two. My emotions are mixed, I miss them but I desperately need this time to decompress, spend time with my husband and enjoy some me time.

If you are keeping up with me on Instagram, you know I am traveling every weekend this summer. By the time I get home, I’m in desperate need of some wind-down time before embarking on a new week. When I got home yesterday, I made a beeline for the outdoor porch, with magazines I’ve been trying to read for months, a glass mason jar and my Cherry Cobbler wine in tow.

The humidity from a fresh evening rain, mixed in with the breeze from the overhead fan, along with my fave tunes helped me relax from a very busy weekend. The refreshing taste of tart cherries, with a hint of caramel and vanilla, make Cherry Cobbler wine the perfect carefree summer sipper. This summer season wine is perfect for an afternoon cookout or poolside gathering. No need to get fancy, ball jars or red cups will do. I’ll drink my dessert, thank you! No forks needed for this sweet treat, it’s meant for sharing with your favorite adult people.

Cherry Cobbler Wine

Cherry Cobbler wine is only available in stores for a limited time and will likely be purchased off all store shelves by July 4th. Once it’s gone, it’s gone until next year so don’t miss out! You can pick up a bottle in 21 states, or better yet grab your $10 Cherry Cobbler wine online here!

Cherry Cobbler Wine

How are you relaxing this summer? Anybody else sending their kids off for the summer?

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Things to do in Memphis
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One Night in Memphis

*taps the mic*

*blows the dust off*

It’s been a minute, I know. Life is good and busy, and I needed to take a step back to regroup. I think I have some structure again and I am looking forward to making this little corner of the web a priority again.

This summer I will be traveling to quite a few major cities with Just for Me and Walmart. I’m really enjoying the opportunity to travel to new cities, interact with different people, while getting the opportunity to work with a great brand. Last weekend Trina and I were in Memphis, TN. Trina is on the same tour, but she is working with Dr. Miracle’s so we get to travel together. I’d never been to Memphis, so I was looking forward to fitting in a few sites, bites and drinks.

 

Things to do in Memphis

Things to do in Memphis

Things to do in Memphis

After visiting the Lorraine Motel we ventured over to Beale Street. It reminded me a lot of Bourbon street. Lots of music, characters and people watching.

Things to do in Memphis

Things to do in Memphis

Things to do in Memphis

Things to do in Memphis

Things to do in Memphis

Things to do in Memphis

Capped off the weekend at Walmart, where I had the opportunity to meet some blog/IG friends! It’s always so good to actually meet folks in person.

Things to do in Memphis

Things to do in Memphis

Saturday, I’ll be in Colonial Heights, VA., and Laurel, MD on Sunday. If you are in the area, would love to meet you!

Also, I want to give a shoutout to the nice lady I met walking to Target a few weeks ago. I was looking a HOT mess and she was so nice. I won’t put your real name out here, but if you are reading this email me. Let’s have lunch!