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Building the House Episode 8

*pours you one of those humongous mugs of tea and slides you a whole bag of biscoff* You’ll need it.

Where did we leave off?

Well remember a few episodes back we were concerned with the funding and had to pay off some bills? Well we finally got the verdict on that from the bank and everything was where it needed to be and we were officially allowed to start the financing process. We got everything back from the underwriter with very minimal conditions.

*insert praise break*

Things are on the up and up. We’re gathering the few additional documents the underwriter has requested and this even happened

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 Oh, but don’t get too excited.

So fast forward to Monday of this week, I stop by the builder to request a cancellation form from the very first lot that we had..Remember? She has that look on her face and asked me to come back on Tuesday.

*slow walks back to the car*

Tuesday she explains to me that the county had come out to do their measuring, and while they promised us the ability to have a side garage we would not be able to get that option on that particular lot.

Sooooo you mean to tell me….I kept my mouth shut and processed my thoughts before I opened my mouth.

Basically I told them this was the second time we were promised something that couldn’t be delivered and we wanted the side garage and they needed to make it happen or we would be walking away. She tried to downplay it and that almost sent me spiraling but I kept my composure.

See. We’ve struggled, we’ve settled on many things, we’ve believed and we’ve paid our dues these past 10 years. This is our forever home and we want what we want….and in this instance my friends it is a side car garage.

After some last minute shuffling and accommodations they were able to move us to another lot towards the front. I’m not crazy about it but I will compromise because at this point there are no other options rather than to wait another 6 months when the new phase opens. So we end up here.

Lot 69

Theeeeen I go there yesterday to handle all of the paperwork because we needed to create a new contract. In the process we discover that the survey had already been done on that lot and it was measured for a back staircase and we have to keep that option and they are trying to stick us with the cost…NOPE. That will be my fight for the next few days…I was there from 9 am to 11:30a. Left to run a few errands and pick up my son. Got back there at 3p and didn’t leave until 9p. That was a full day at work and add in whining, bored, hungry children. I was praying in my head the entire time. So since we were finalizing everything I thought it a great idea to throw in some additional amenities that increased the cost so now this all has to go back to underwriting. So now I bite my nails waiting to see if this new contract is approved..

Oh and this house will be on the market tomorrow.

God IS able!!

Need a tea refill?!

12 Comments

  • Reply
    KalleyC
    January 31, 2013 at 11:00 am

    I think you are going to have to add something strong to my cup of tea. Just kidding. Maybe. That is a lot of issues that has been going on. But you have been handling your business. I will keep you in my prayers, and pray that their foolishness is over.

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    Mylah Sai
    January 31, 2013 at 11:02 am

    Definitely pour me another cup. I’m hanging in there with you. Yes, God is indeed able and He will have His way in this and every situation you face.

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    Legally Chocolat
    January 31, 2013 at 11:36 am

    Amen!!!!!

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    Christina
    January 31, 2013 at 11:52 am

    Lawd, this is why I’m questioning if we want to build or not for our forever home. I’ve seen this process so many times (from the realtors perspective) and I’ve NEVER seen it just go smoothly! I get stressed out and it’s not even my house! The gold part though, is that at the end of it all, they always have a beautiful, beautifil home, so it wworkss out! Just a hellish process.

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    Krissy
    January 31, 2013 at 12:01 pm

    I can’t deal! this is all too much for me. I am praying everything works out for you guys.

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    Kita
    January 31, 2013 at 4:23 pm

    Girl I don’t need no tea unless it’s long island. There is a light though at the end of the tunnel….I see the light.

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    LaShawn
    January 31, 2013 at 7:23 pm

    Girl, please add something to that tea! I swear, if it ain’t one thing it’s another?!Praying that it all works out!

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    Quiana
    January 31, 2013 at 7:53 pm

    Oh wow – what a switcheroo! Good for you holding your ground. I’m sure you’ll have all sorts of praise reports to share as this process continues to unfold.

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    Mrs. Delightful
    February 1, 2013 at 1:45 pm

    I’m ready for my refill :). Everything will work out though… I could imagine that you are beyond ready at this point for the process to over and to be in your new house.

    Mrs. Delightful
    http://www.ourdelightfulhome.blogspot.com

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    K. Rock
    February 1, 2013 at 2:36 pm

    Ohh chile, you are making me never want to go through this. Just hold on! It will all work out fine in the end.

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    Tia
    February 7, 2013 at 2:12 pm

    Go for what’s your’s girl! I am big believer in getting what I’m paying for. If they have to bend over backwards to fix all their wrongs that’s their issue. Your family deserves a beautiful forever home. Can’t wait to see what happens next!

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    Carla
    February 12, 2013 at 3:38 pm

    I knew this process was tedious, but My God.. it seems like it’s always something. I’m glad everything is working out for you though. It’ll be a while before I get to the point where I want to buy/build a home, but at least I have a little insight on how the process goes.

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