On this day 4 years ago I got THE call.
The one no one wants.
The house phone first and when we didn’t answer, the cell phone followed. I knew without answering..Mommy was gone.
One day I’ll tell the whole story, just not today.
While my mother left me here 4 years ago, she only left me physically but I am so thankful for the memories.
Today I choose to smile through my tears. I was looking through some photos and thought I would share. My mama was one bad Mamajama!!
Say a prayer for me today..and the next few days. To add insult to injury her birthday is next Saturday the 4th. Hallelujah for BlogHer for diversion but I am still a little broken.
Love y’all!!!!
Purveyor of the *side eye* early
That's her in the middle
Owwwww!!!! My mama and daddy!!
Grandpa and Mommy
She's in the black dress. THAT HAIR!!
2005 pregnant with my son
So proud she was able to see me have my first child
58 Comments
Teems
July 27, 2012 at 10:37 amAww Rest In Peace to your mom. I saw you in so many of her pictures. This inspired me to share some pictures of my mom who also passed a way soon.
🙂 Stay strong and have fun at BlogHer!
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 10:03 am*hugs* It sucks being a member of this club. Pictures are always a great reminder of brighter days and awesome memories.
brandi
July 27, 2012 at 10:42 amSo sorry for the loss of your mom. I love her smile. She was such a beautiful woman. I lost my mom too. It will be 15years this Sept. As much as I miss her everyday, I am thankful for the gifts she gave me. Take care, friend. I’ll be praying for you (us).
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 10:23 amThank you! It is so hard. It gets a bit easier with time but the hole is always there. The bright side is the gifts and memories. They still live through us.
Tia
July 27, 2012 at 10:55 amThat first pic could literally be you and your daughter! Praying that God gives you strength during this difficult time. May His peace and her memory sustain you…
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 10:49 amThank you Tia. I appreciate it.
Nellie
July 27, 2012 at 10:57 amRest in peace to your beautiful mommy. I love the pic of you and her. I know this is a tough time, but you are incredibly strong. Know that she is with you always.
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 11:20 amThanks! I should’ve told you in person when I saw you. Great meeting you IRL
This Cookn Mom
July 27, 2012 at 11:05 amSorry for your loss. I’m glad you are able to reminisce and smile about your mom. Stay strong. Your mom, you, and your daughter all favor each other.
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 1:58 pmWe do! I was looking at the one of me when I was younger and thought the baby does look a bit like me and a whole lot like her father. Thank you!
Kita
July 27, 2012 at 11:06 am*hugs* It’s hard so very hard. I am glad she saw your first born mines did too before she passed and it gives me some comfort. Think of the good times this weekend.
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 1:59 pmYes, because while we think we have it bad some people never had their mothers see their first child. We have to count our blessings wherever we can.
Amber
July 27, 2012 at 11:19 amYour mother was beautiful, Mims! Her hair, her outfits, her smile = everything! Thank you for sharing with us. I’m praying for you today, my friend. And always.
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 1:59 pmI love you friend! Thank you
GG
July 27, 2012 at 11:26 amShe’s beautiful MiMi! These photos tell so many stories. Thank you for sharing. Sending hugs and prayers your way. xo
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 2:00 pmThanks GG. Loving all of your new posts!
Dee Dee
July 27, 2012 at 11:39 amI’ll definitely say a prayer, and you look just like her. What a wonderful post to share her memory.
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 2:01 pmYes!! The older I get the more I start to look like her. That is a great thing! She was an awesome lady. Thank you!
Jasmine Hardaway
July 27, 2012 at 11:53 amYou look a lot like you mom in her younger days! But that picture of her in black with her girlfriends is too FAB! I’ll pray for peace for your broken heart.
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 2:02 pmThey look they were some problem starters back in the day! I got it honest..I think! Thank you for stopping by.
Rhonda L.
July 27, 2012 at 12:14 pmMy heart, thoughts and prayers are with you, Mimi. She was absolutely beautiful! I see where you get all that hair from!
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 2:03 pmI have nothing on her! Thank you for your kind words. I appreciate them.
Krissy
July 27, 2012 at 1:32 pmPrays up. Love you sis. I love all the pics! Made me smile
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 2:03 pmLove you too sister!
Kiea
July 27, 2012 at 2:07 pmDefinitely saying a prayer for you today!
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 2:04 pmThank you!
Rosesdaughter
July 27, 2012 at 2:26 pm((HUGS))
You look like your mama! I see where you get your style from!
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 2:05 pmShe started it! Its genetic.
Karen
July 27, 2012 at 3:27 pmThank you for sharing a little bit of your mom with us today. I can tell that she was loved by you and that you were loved by her. Keep thinking of the wonderful memories that you shared with her as you celebrate her life today and next weekend. Your BLMGirl, Karen.
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 2:06 pmThanks Karen!!
ghanaianemprezz
July 27, 2012 at 3:28 pmMay the lord continue to give you the strength to face life and may He grant you all that you ever pray for.
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 2:08 pmThank you so much for the kind words. I appreciate them.
Amanda
July 27, 2012 at 3:56 pmThese pictures are beautiful! Your mother’s beautiful! I hope you feel better through this tough time. Just always remember she’s still with you.
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 2:09 pmThank you so much for the kind words Amanda. I appreciate them!
Crystal
July 27, 2012 at 4:56 pmYour sharing this is beautiful. 🙂
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 2:12 pmSometime sharing is a form of healing. Just want everyone to see what a beautiful person she was. Even through pictures you can often see how good someone was. Thanks for the kinds words.
India
July 27, 2012 at 5:42 pmPrayers up for you doll!! Its never an easy thing but your strength comes from the Lord!!
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 2:13 pmAMEN!! I think we forget we don’t have to be strong that God has it! Thank you for stopping by. I truly appreciate it.
Prototype Mama
July 28, 2012 at 12:34 amVirtual hugs from my way– your mom is gorg.! You look so much like her-thanks for sharing a little piece of your memories
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 2:14 pmHey!! Thank you. I am starting to look more and more like her. She was an awesome lady!
Marie Young
July 28, 2012 at 9:37 amYour mama was was FIERCE! I will def say a prayer for you and I hope your have blessed day 🙂
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 2:15 pmWasn’t she. It seemed they were so free back then. Thank you for taking the time to stop by and wish me well. I’m thankful!
Marie Young
August 9, 2012 at 4:23 pmNo prob!
Quiana
July 28, 2012 at 12:46 pmWhat a beautiful tribute to your mother. I’ll be sure to give you extra hugs on Saturday.
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 2:16 pmThanks! It was so great to meet you.
YUMMommy
July 28, 2012 at 1:09 pmWe will most certainly be lifting you and your family up in prayer today. Your mama was one stylish lady!!
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 2:17 pmI got it from my Mama!! Thank you!
Carla
July 28, 2012 at 2:51 pmGosh! The two of you look so much alike. Two beautiful women.
I’ll be sure to pray for you, Mimi. It’s never easy to lose someone that you care so much about.. someone that brings joy and happiness to your life. I’m sure she was an amazing woman. God bless you Mimi and I pray that you get stronger and stronger each year.
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 2:18 pmThanks Carla! ….and no the gift isn’t Sangria!!!
Morocco
July 29, 2012 at 1:03 pmSending you a cyber hug….
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 2:19 pmI felt it. Thank you!
G K
July 30, 2012 at 6:25 pmOkay, we definitely know where you got your fashion-fowardness (and that hair).
Your post just reminds me to enjoy this time with my mom while I have her. I pray for your continued healing. I can’t imagine.
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 2:20 pmYes, enjoy your mama and give her a kiss for me!
MommaExpat
July 31, 2012 at 2:14 pmI haven’t lost a parent but I want you to know my thoughts and prayers are with you. If words could make the pain go away, I’d wish you a thousand.
Mimi
August 1, 2012 at 1:34 pmOh thank you so much!! I appreciate it.
Latorsha
August 1, 2012 at 11:22 amSorry that I am just commenting but definitely was thinking about you when I read this via email.
I pray you find comfort in your memories and knowing she is always in your heart. xoxo
Mimi
August 8, 2012 at 2:20 pmAwww thank you! XOXO back at ya!
Rhonda at Looms, Lids, and Layers
August 5, 2012 at 10:12 pmPictures make a world of difference. Its so good that you know that she is still with you and just physically gone. You favor her so much!! I will keep you lifted in prayer! So great to have met you this weekend and I will see you soon! Take Care!