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Fall Evening Walks

You do know if we are not careful, we would have let our children waste their childhoods away staring at screens and not the kind that your grandmama told you not to slam on your way out.

I hear so many of us parents complaining about how our children don’t know childhood as we did, yet we continue to let them waste their time away on electronic devices instead of pushing and encouraging them to go outdoors or explore other creative outlets of play.

*insert black lady emoji with raised hand*

Living in a relatively “safe” neighborhood I do not trust my children to play outside unsupervised for a number of reasons. Primarily the fact that distracted drivers treat the main street through the neighborhood as if it is some kind of drag race thoroughfare, and to think the community thought it better to resurface the tennis courts than to install speed bumps. Add on the fact that we live in a society with predators, and you get the answer to the equation of me not feeling comfortable with just the two of them playing together outside. This puts the pressure on my husband and I to spend time with them outdoors.

 

Outdoor Play

 

I’ve instituted a one charge a week electronic device boot camp where I only charge their devices once a week encouraging them to use their time wisely. One of the activities that I institute when they’ve either used up their charge, or I am trying to save them from the dreaded dead battery prior to the next week’s charge is taking them outside for evening walks.

 

Outdoor Play

 

Outdoor Play

 

I find them actually talking to one another, laughing and joking and doing what brothers and sisters do. As the evenings have started to get cooler they are having a great time pointing out fall decorations on neighborhood porches and rushing to find premature fall hued  leaves that have fallen to the ground.

 

Outdoor Play

I will say I have been enjoying these walks. It’s a time to wind down from the day, enjoy the fall breeze and take in the calm of nature before it gets too cold and then we have to figure something else out, cause there will be no evening walks in the cold.

Have you found effective ways to lessen screen time?  Do you allow your children to play outdoors unsupervised?

 

 

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Tips for Staying on Top of Your Child’s Schoolwork

Having two children in elementary school is a lot more stressful than I anticipated. Keeping track of what electives happen on which day, what projects are due, and when tests will be taken can be quite overwhelming with more than one child.

I took some time shortly after school started to get some things organized and systems in place to keep track of all of their activities. This past week I’ve started to feel overwhelmed again as I get myself back together after being sick. While I was sick  the Mr. managed to hold things together like food, baths, and laundry and threw all kinds of shade to the wind about my school work organization plan  . All of their papers are in a pile on the kitchen table and I feel so unorganized thinking a child has missed something or wasn’t properly prepared for a test. As I try to get order back in here with their schoolwork I thought I would share a few tips with those of you like me who might be switching up the day the light bill is due with the date of the spelling test.

 

organizing schoolwork

 

Setup a Separate Email Address: I appreciate teachers who communicate well with parents. My son has two teachers and my daughter has one and on average, in a week from all three teachers I get about 10-15 emails. To ensure I don’t miss any important information amongst  my Gap, and Michael’s coupons I decided to setup a separate email address where only teacher and school related correspondence comes. It has made a huge difference in keeping things and dates organized.

Color Code Each Child: My planner seems to have something written in every square. To give myself a glimpse at which child has something due on a given day I color code their activities. My daughter is pink and my son is blue. All activities pertaining to that child are written in that color and while it may seem silly it helps tremendously with planning.

Write Important Dates Down Immediately: When I go through each child’s paperwork from the day, I have my planner and pink and blue pen by my side. From conference letters to Scholastic ordering days I write those things down right then. I don’t depend on my brain to remember because that makes me crazy. I mean you are already sitting down sifting through pages of work and permission slips. It’s so simple to just transfer the information to your planner right then.

 

organizing schoolwork

 

Decide What to Throw Away and What to Keep:  This has been one of my biggest struggles. Who doesn’t want to look back and see budding handwriting skills on hundreds of pieces of worksheets sent home daily? I personally know how hard it is to throw away every piece of paper that your child completes in grade school, however keeping unnecessary papers makes it hard to organize and keep up with the important papers. Set up an area where you keep important papers like calendars and lunch menus so you have them within reach. I only keep artwork, and a few handwritten worksheets for nostalgia sake. I would recommend keeping the exceptionally great pieces and toss the others, when the babies aren’t looking of course.

Keep Your Child in the Loop: When the most expensive of planners fail and your phone alarm didn’t go off,  never under estimate the power of a child to repeat to you verbatim what the teacher told them about turning in those boosterthon pledges and school picture payments on time.

To keep things running smoothly during the school year, create these lists weekly, and use these tips to stay organized throughout the school year.

 

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Organizing Mamas – Mud Room Closet Makeover | Update

So, today was the day I was to reveal my mud room closet that I showed you two weeks ago. Well the way my cold and non stop coughing the past week and a half was setup. In other words, I was sick and didn’t finish it.

I did however, manage to get it cleaned up before the cooties took me out. Now that I am trying to do better about making sure that I complete things that I start, I struggled through bagging everything up and taking it to the Goodwill that afternoon instead of wiping my hands of the mess, walking away and acting like the children when my husband would’ve asked who made this mess.

mud room closet

 

The struggle was so real once the kids got home, coming in and skipping down memory lane finding old things and trying to sneak them back into their rooms.

NOPE. I wasn’t having it.

After two hours I was done and I was proud of myself.

 

 

This week I plan to paint the inside and decide on another flooring option. I am also looking at boot trays and quietly weeping onto my keyboard when I see how much they cost but I’m pretty sure there will be one in there to collect wet shoes. Give me two more weeks and hopefully I’ll be back with a true reveal.

Now, head over and see what Tia has planned for her new bundle of joy’s nursery!

 

 

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Apple Pickin’

Last week for Fall break, my babies,  my SIL, niece and nephews took the 2 hour drive to Elijay, GA which is just north of Atlanta for an afternoon of apple picking at B.J. Reece Apple Orchards. We picked the perfect day, while the weather was a little warm, it was overcast so the shade from the clouds was welcomed.

B.J. Reece Orchards

 

Before getting started we had to take our obligatory photo in front of the sign. Excuse me while I make sure my selfie stick is working.

 

B.J. Reece Orchards

 

B.J. Reece Orchards

 

B.J. Reece Orchards

 

My youngest nephew I’m sure had the most fun. He loves apples and just as quick as we could get them in the wagon  he was taking baby sized chunks out of them. The majority of the green apples had already been picked over. Was a little sad about that, really wanted some Granny Smith. We manged to find a few, but not many.

 

B.J. Reece Orchards

 

B.J. Reece Orchards

 

B.J. Reece Orchards

 

B.J. Reece Orchards

 

B.J. Reece Orchards

 

B.J. Reece Orchards

 

B.J. Reece Orchards

 

B.J. Reece Orchards

 

B.J. Reece Orchards

 

 

B.J. Reece Orchards

I have so many apples that I need to do something with. Unfortunately I was terribly under the weather and didn’t have a chance to really bake like I wanted and this coming weekend is extremely busy. Sunday, I’ll make my Mom’s apple pie and I’ll even share the recipe. I know she would want me to!

Have you made the trek to the apple orchard or pumpkin patch yet? Here is our trip from last year.