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Five Ways to Support Your Favorite Online Influencers

I get questioned often about how to start a blog, and the inquiry seems to come on the heels of a discussion about how do bloggers and vloggers make money. The general consensus seems to be that people think people who make money on the internet simply sit at the computer, type a little of this, add a picture here or there and be done.

…..if only it were that simple. Trust me it is a tangled web of marketing, and SEO, and design, and photography, and editing and networking…..oh and writing/recording

Many of your favorite bloggers and vloggers incur a number of expenses including time away from their families to provide you with a little laughter, product recommendations, travel tips, fashion inspiration, etc. In the event you don’t know how online content producers get paid, it’s by pageviews which happen with that little click of your mouse.

Those clicks transfer into influence which brands like, which ultimately transfers into opportunities and dollars.

Running a website consists of hosting, domain and SEO fees. Cameras, lenses, and editing software. Those conferences we attend to learn about what consumers want from the internet? Travel fees.

As much as many of us love to blog and have extended our hobbies into a living or side hustle, it is just that. We are attempting to make an unconventional living doing something we love while needing to feed our families, save money, or get out of debt. It is our job.

Supporting your favorite online website or influencer is pretty simple. Here are three tried and true ways to show a little internet love

| CLICK THE SHARE BUTTON: Ever come across that recipe or outfit or DIY project and you stopped to leave a comment about how you are going to try or buy that thing. Go a step further and click the share button. Viral videos and posts go viral because enough people shared it.

No, that recipe may not be of a 3 month old baby bouncing on beat to a popular song but that information touched your life somehow and may be of use to someone else. A simple share goes a long way in putting that website or blogger in front of other people.

| PURCHASE SOMETHING FROM AN AFFILIATE LINK: There is a particular Youtuber that I absolutely love and she provides basic tips and links the products that she uses on Amazon. I always buy the products I need to recreate what she is doing. While I may be able to find them fairly cheaper somewhere else, she took the time to make it convenient for me, a very busy woman. That’s worth an extra dollar or three out of my pocket and into hers.

| SIGN UP FOR THE EMAIL LIST & READ: Most of your favorite bloggers have no intention on spamming you. If you are interested in the content, a newsletter may go out once a week with all of the top posts combined. Click around and read, those page views help in the grand scheme of things.

| FOLLOW ON SOCIAL MEDIA: In this game, numbers count…a little more than they should, but they count. Follow on the channels you frequent and like a post here or there

| LEAVE COMMENTS: I need to do better at this one. Creating content can feel like you are in a room by yourself until you look at the numbers and see people are reading. I know we are all on our phones and leaving comments can be cumbersome but every now and then if something touches you leave a comment. Tell them how much you enjoyed that post, or how useful that hack was. I can’t speak to everybody who lives their lives online, but for me I absolutely love comments. It’s like I’m not having a one sided conversation with myself.

Don’t let the trolls win. Be nice and leave a comment every now and then.

There you have it, five simple ways to show a little internet love when you can. I speak on behalf of all online influencers when I tell you a little bit goes a long way.

So to follow my own advice those lovely ladies in the photo are a few of my blog friends that have turned into family. We all blog about a variety of things. Go explore their sites to see if they may have some information that is of use to you!

Lashawn, Aaronica, and MJ ( left to right)

See you tomorrow!

 

Gymboree Giveaway
Fashion Girl Style

The Best Time to Be a Kid + Gymboree GC Giveaway

Children grow so fast. Finding affordable and high quality clothing is an essential for every parent. Partnering with Gymboree on this post to highlight some of their fun and festive gear for the season. I was compensated for this post….cause again, children always need something or the other.

I’ll never forget the Dr. telling me at one of my daughter’s appointment that if I wanted to get an idea of how we parent, observe her interactions with others and how she plays with her dolls.

In doing so, I got the feeling that I must be extremely affectionate with her. She is such a ball of affection,  joy and laughter all of the time and now that the holidays are upon us she is extra giddy and excited for us to do all of the fun things we do as a family this time of year.

Gymboree Giveaway

I’m not for all of  the fanciness of the season. We like to keep things light, fun and festive. Creating a magical experience for my children is my main priority during the season. We take car rides in various neighborhoods to observe the outdoor decorations and lights, we ice skate, have family movie nights to watch our favorite Christmas movies, visit Six Flags, and the night before Christmas we make s’mores.

We also do Elf on the Shelf, although I’m not completely certain Bella and Charlotte will make an appearance this year. They moved a whole 4 times last year.

All of our activities require comfy clothing, and as I’ve mentioned before Addison has discovered her own fashion preferences and the majority of them come from Gymboree.

Gymboree Giveaway

Gymboree Giveaway

Vibrant, sparkly and shiny clothing fit my girl’s personality to a tee. Gymboree style will have her warm and fabulous for our holiday traditions this year.

Gymboree Giveaway

Gymboree Giveaway

Gymboree Giveaway

Gymboree Giveaway

Shop her looks on Gymboree.com below:

Hat | Skinny Jeans | Shirt | Coat | Boots | Purse

 

Need a little monetary assistance shopping these items?! Enter to win a $50 Gymboree giftcard that can be used to make purchases in store and online. Super easy to enter!

Giveaway will run for one week for US citizens only.

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Mompreneur Unlikely Market

Market Monday

Outside of oversharing here, some of you may not know I also run a growing online boutique that specializes in apparel, monograms, home decor & more.

Unlikely Market is a little over 1 year old. Growing the business has taught me a ton in the last year and as I continue to grow the business I am constantly learning that closed mouths don’t get fed.

Soooooooooo……..

When you start thinking about Christmas gifts, or you have that one friend that monograms any and everything I would be so appreciative if you mentioned and supported Unlikely Market this holiday season and beyond.

These are a few of my best selling items. All items ship free! Save 10% off your first order with code UM10

Monogrammed Gifts

Monogrammed Gifts

 

 

MONOGRAMMED BASEBALL CAP 

KIDS FOX SCARF

INFINITY BLANKET SCARF

DUAL SIDED TARTAN + PLAID SCARF

PERSONALIZED NAME NECKLACE

MONOGRAMMED BOOT TOPPERS

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Life

S U N D A Y

I will never shake the feeling that Sunday’s are made for lounging in the bed all day watching movies and sporadically napping. Perhaps it’s because that was my reality before children. Every now and again I get that leisure on a Sunday, usually when I’m sick but who’s keeping tabs.

Last night I opted not to come home. My husband was out of town and the kids  with my dad. I saw an opportunity to change my scenery for the evening and I did. I stayed in town with my bestie spending the evening with her and my god brother. We walked to a bar, pulled some chairs out of said bar and sat them on the sidewalk and people watched over a few round of drinks.

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Today, I felt my extra hour and I was grateful. Pretty sure it was because I wasn’t home. No one asking for breakfast, or what was for dinner.

I woke to a slight breeze from an open window, peace and a slight crook in my neck because old bones don’t sleep so well on sofas anymore sooooooooo……..

We leisurely gathered ourselves and hurried down to Thumbs Up, one of Atlanta’s hot little breakfast spots. We were  seated immediately, in Atlanta speak that is like seeing a unicorn. I’ve never been there and not waited forever.

Thumbs Up Edgewood

Over breakfast, my husband texted his flight was delayed so we trekked over to one of the better Goodwill stores in the area.

Had just checked out when he texted again that he landed a whole 30 minutes before he should’ve according to my calculations.

From there it was picking him up, the kids up, grocery shopping….

My son is maturing so fast. I can’t help but want to spend as much time with him as possible cause I’m sure he’ll be packing up for college tomorrow. He asked me to take a bike ride with him so off we went in the neighborhood.

I walked my bike  home for what it’s worth.

I’m not really sure what my legs are going to feel like in the morning but I am grateful for this little memory that I created with him today.

A new week dawns and with it uncertainties, hopefully those of the joyful variety. Either way, our reactions and mindset are powerful in pressing through.

I hope your Sunday was well, and I wish you a great week ahead.

See you tomorrow friends.