travel

Let me start by saying when I was coming up, once school started we didn’t get many breaks. We had a few days for Thanksgiving, like that Thursday and Friday. For Christmas we might have been lucky to get out the day before Christmas and went back right after the new year. At that point, we waited patiently until Spring to get another break, with a few days off here and there.

Fast forward some *cough* 20 plus years and it seems like every time I look up my children are out of school. To be honest, I kind of understand all of these additional days that are built in now, I think it’s good for the teachers to get a little break here and there. My children had a fall break a few weeks ago and since I spent nearly every weekend this summer traveling, I thought this would be a good time for us to hit the beach.

Since my husband couldn’t get the whole week off, we decided to head to Jekyll Island, which is a small island off the coast of Georgia. It wasn’t my first time there, I went a few years ago for a girls trip and thought the calm and quiet of the beach this time of year would be good. Jekyll Island is the perfect quaint little place if you are looking for a little R&R.

We stayed at the recently renovated Holiday Inn Jekyll Island. The hotel was steps away from the beach.

The first night we got there, we just opted to walk along the beach at sunset and grab some dinner and ice cream.

Dinner was at Tortuga Jacks. I promise sitting on their outdoor porch, catching the glimpse of a hanging pinata out of one eye and the ocean out of the other, if someone had blindfolded me and brought me there I would’ve sworn I was on some exotic island. The night breeze, family talk, and the sunsetting on the ocean made for a beautiful dinner.

Oh, and the food was good.

I’m not sure who was more excited about spending a day on the beach. We hurried and ate an okay breakfast at the hotel restaurant, you know the usual hotel breakfast buffet fare before skipping back to the room and getting ready for a quiet day on the beach.

With no real agenda, we played each day by ear. I really wanted us to take a bike ride around the island but I miscalculated off-peak hours for island businesses, and we missed out. We eventually made our way down to Driftwood beach, which was absolutely eerie and beautiful at the same time. You ever look at nature and are completely awed at its beauty? This was one of those times for me.

….and you have to love strangers who see you struggling to set up your camera to do a family selfie and offer to take your picture.

In the vein of forgetting we were visiting during off-peak season, we missed a lot of the fun little gift shops and such. By the time we cleaned up from the beach, it was almost 5p, and everything was closing up for the day. We did manage to find our way into one shop for some souvenirs and a leisurely walk.

When we couldn’t go biking, we went searching for a few things to do off the island and found our way to St. Simons island another barrier island about 20 minutes away.

St. Simons was more of a beach town, with souvenir and ice cream shops on what you would consider a traditional beach strip. It reminded me so much of the summers I spent at a friend’s beach house on Rehobeth beach in Delaware. Nostalgia always wins! We’ll be back St. Simons.

We had dinner at Iguanas, it was the Epitome of beach food. The inside looked like it hadn’t been renovated since the 80s… nostalgia wins again. Took me right back to summers on the beach as a kid. Off-season beach life afforded us the opportunity to sit and eat without a wait. I love a good hush puppy and these might have been some of the best I’ve ever had.

So. Freaking. Good.

If you ever make it to St. Simons, eat there.

We walked the town but were too late to get salt water taffy and tacky souvenirs. The pier more than made up for it as we happened on this dope sunset. Seems like it was the happening spot, folks fishing, families out, couples walking hand in hand. We fit right in and walked a little enjoying the night breeze.

I think we could’ve stayed another day but let’s just say weekend rates on the island are a little steep, so we packed up and headed home. With just four hours from door to door, this was the perfect little getaway. We’re likely going to take another fun weekend excursion in a few weeks back to Asheville with the kids in tow once the leaves change, so stay tuned for more Scarlett family travels!

Here’s a fun little video of our stay on Jekyll Island! Be sure to subscribe to my Youtube channel, while you’re over there!

Do you have any fall travel plans?

I suppose my children should consider themselves lucky that their parentals hail from locations that are popular tourist attractions. Their father from Miami, myself from Washington D.C. Since we visited Miami earlier in the summer to spend time with my husband’s family I thought it only right when the opportunity presented itself to take a quick trip to D.C. to visit my family.

Our first tourist stop was the African American History and Culture Museum. I have received so many questions about our experience there that I am going to attempt to answer them here in this post or direct you to a place on the web that can offer more insight if you are planning to visit. Mingled in with the pertinent information I will share my thoughts and feelings as well as photos of items and words that struck a chord, good or bad with me during our visit.  I think everyone who has a desire to understand the plight of African Americans should visit the National Museum of African American History and Culture  at least once in their lifetime.

How to Get Tickets

I truly believe favor isn’t always fair. Much like my anticipation of standing in a long line to get into Magnolia Market in Waco when instead we were able to walk right in, such was our experience at the AAHC. We walked up to the entrance to ask where to go for standby tickets. Had a little chat with the attendant and she kindly told us to walk right in. We are so thankful for her generosity but seeing how that was a one in a million chance here is the proper protocol for entrance.

*If you are aware of your travel dates ahead of time go online here to reserve your tickets. Please note these advance timed passes are released monthly. The next release is scheduled for August 2 for visits that will occur in November.

*If you are planning an impromptu trip there are a number of same day tickets released daily at 6:30a. You will have to login at that time to try and reserve. We tried this option at 6:30 and did not get any. Be online early and ready to hit the button at 6:30 if you want a chance!

*If you are visiting during the week, in addition to the same day tickets you can also try your hand at a walk up ticket. Walk up tickets are handed out starting at 1p WEEKDAYS ONLY. Get there early if you are thinking about this route. The line was long at 12p when we got there.

You can find all information regarding individual and group passes here

How Much Time Will You Need

One day will not be enough. Prior to going I heard people say this and was sure we would be the exception.

We were not.

The information is vast and your desire to see everything will require you to visit at least 3 times. Unless you live in the area, you will not have that luxury so expect to spend at least 5 hours there to get a good glimpse at a good amount of the material. I suppose once the Summer is over you may have a better chance of getting it all in in less time, even then I still think at least 2 full days would be needed.

With the sheer amount of people present you will not be able to read everything, instead I took photos of names, events and locations that I wanted to learn more about. I have since compiled a  list that we as a family will use to do our own personal research.

Is It Child Appropriate

I thought the exhibits were very interactive and very much child appropriate in their presentation. My daughter had tons of questions, and although we have discussed slavery and some of the tougher issues regarding segregation etc. in depth,  I think seeing the artifacts and photos really put things into perspective for her. If you have not exposed your children to some of the more raw and harder subjects surrounding African American history you may want to give it an overview before going and talk them through the exhibits in language that is age appropriate or at their level of understanding.

Is It Really Crowded

Yes! The first two floors were very crowded and a bit irritating as you try to maneuver around people. Around the middle of the 2nd floor the crowd thins out a bit. We went on a weekday, so I can’t really speak for the weekends but I imagine the way the exhibits are set up the further along you move the crowd thins out as people begin to move at their own pace.

Random Thoughts and Reactions

Overall the exhibits were well thought out and effectively shared the chronological progression of African Americans through slavery, emancipation, segregation, religion, music, theater, sports television, you name it, they covered it in the most interactive and thought provoking way. On a trek to the restroom I observed an elderly white lady in a wheelchair sobbing as she read an excerpt on the first floor. I didn’t know her story, and as I started to speculate on her past I didn’t. The enormity of what has happened and continues to happen in this country to people of color should bring tears to the eyes of more people.  The exhibits here were raw and real, and I commend the manner in which they were presented. There is no need in sugar coating the plight of African Americans in this country. A journey that has been filled with hate, struggle, hope and success, a journey that unfortunately is rearing itself to be cyclical through systematic racism and hate. I left with  feelings of grief, confusion and  accomplishment.

I left feeling that only a select group of people can be torn and ripped from their families, deprived of simple human rights, and yet somehow make a way out of no way blazing trails in every aspect of human imagination. It made me want to do more and be better and educate my children more on our history and not text book history. I’m still processing a lot of it but one thing is for sure…..

I HAVE NEVER BEEN PROUDER TO BLACK IN AMERICA.

If you have the opportunity to visit, please do.

My husband is from Miami. The struggle of getting someone who was born in a highly popular tourist destination to take you to do touristy things is absolutely real. This past weekend we travelled to Miami for his family reunion. Our free time offered up the opportunity to do touristy things, and we absolutely made the most of the limited amount of time we had. We were able to see a few very neat places in Miami that I am looking forward to going back and exploring when we make it back, and have more time. One of the things I’m thinking about doing is checking out the fascinating famous people from Miami, Florida. This is just one of the things you to consider if you want to maximize what you get out of your trip.

If you are headed to South Florida here are a few family friendly things to do.

SOUTH BEACH DUCK TOUR

The South Beach Duck Tour is a 90 minute tour that rolls through the streets of South Beach offering an up high view of the city, along with a in-depth history and architecture lesson on the inception and growth of South Beach. After about 20 minutes our ride turned into a boat and afloat the water we toured the mansions of stars and learned more about the history of Miami.

The ride was full of energy and music.

Once aboard land again we cruised the strip, a.k.a. Collins learning more about the rich history and architecture of South Beach

SOUTH BEACH

After the tour we took a quick walk down to the beach. In the past I have assumed that South Beach wasn’t for kids, while crowded there wasn’t anything inappropriate for little eyes. At least when we were there. I will say it was extremely crowded and it was very hot. I would recommend an umbrella if you intend on taking kids out there in the heat of the day.

We ventured back the next day in the evening after the family reunion cookout. It was much better in the evening, the breeze and the sound of the waves at high tide was everything.

WYNWOOD

Miami, like many major cities undergoing regentrification there is new life being breathed into areas that were once forgotten . This section of Miami really intrigued me. The area was full of walls decorated with graffiti, its known as the Wynwood Walls. I really would have loved to have gotten out and walked the area taking photos. The art scene in Miami is very vibrant. The kids were intrigued. We definitely have to make this a priority when we go back.

I did capture this one.

Across from the wall above was an open air food truck area that seemed like it might be all kinds of lit once the sun goes down. The sun was up while we were there and it was HOT. The ambiance nonetheless was right up my alley.

Much like many other major cities, Miami has a Children’s musueum and zoo that we are looking forward to exploring once we make it back. I really enjoyed our short little getaway. The change of scenery and fun in the sun was just what we all needed.