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Adventures in Toddler Beds

Sooooo…..the other day I drops Lil Mama off in the crib to keep her out of the way while I did some cleaning. She ain’t ( yes, ain’t) even in the crib 5 mins. I walk in just in time to see THIS….

Why? Obviously she din’t get the memo that people don’t plank anymore, and she couldn’t have been using that sweet noggin of hers to think that was a bit of a tumble if mama didn’t get there in time to catch her. Should’ve seen me trying to make sure she didn’t fall while reaching for my phone.

So the Mr. and I decided it was time to convert the crib to a toddler bed. First night…OMG. No matter how sleepy, I have bionic ears. At some ungodly hour I hear little feet, followed by…hi mommy. As I struggle to gain focus on the time on the cable box, she comes to the side of the bed clutching her doll, hollering cuP. Huh? By now I’ve focused on 2:45a. I scoop her up, put her in the middle of the bed. Next thing I know she’s peeling her dad’s eyelids back. Lawd, baby you can’t interrupt the breadwinner’s sleep. Off we go back in her room. She falls asleep. Then an hour later I hear my son through the monitor. Noooooo, moMeeeeeeee *focuses eyes…again. 3:47a. Walk to my son’s room and she is peeling his eyelids back. Scoop her up. Put her back back in her bed. I lie on the floor *dozes off* I feel little feet stepping on my back…she’s off again, wanders into the kitchen hollering eaT.  You guessed it *focuses eyes…again* 5:13a. I just got up and fixed her breakfast. She dozes off at 6 then has a diva fit when I wake her up at 7 to take Lil Man to school.

My son. NEVER did such a thing. Hopefully the new car smell of her ability to climb in and out of bed at will, will wear off soon.

Had this problem? Did you lock them in the room? I don’t want to do that, but not sure I want her lolly gagging around in the dark either. Taking advice…first up?

 

 

 

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Guest Post: Setting our Child(ren) up for Exceptional Learning Habits

*taps the microphone* Testing! I’ve taken a little time off from the blog. Redirecting my focus on a few things and lawd knows I can’t rub my stomach and pat my head at the same time on a good day. I’m settling into my new groove and I will be sharing with you guys what I’ve been up to soon.

One of my new shifts has been spending more time with my son and his school work. We all know as parents our influence and dedication to our children’s education inside AND outside of school sets an example for them. I always thought helping with school work would be easy but I’ve found myself struggling getting my son to retain some of his sight words. I know he is just in Kindergarten, but I started thinking there must be a tried and true way. Figuring that some of you may have the same issues…it’s just me? Well, I thought I would reach out to one of my Tweeps/Blog Buddy who is a veteran educator and ask her to do a guest post to help out some of us me with better ways to help our child(ren) build retention, reading and writing skills.

If you have any educational related questions, send them over or leave in the comment section. Maybe she can help us me out more often.  Making education a priority is one of our responsibilities as parents. If you don’t know, you better ask somebody….literally!!

Dr. Reginia blogs over at Her Perfect Black Dress and you can find her on Twitter under Dr_Reginia. 

Thanks Reginia!

Parents; A Child’s First Teacher

 

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Parenting is a complex vehicle. It is a role without concrete instructions, plans, or road maps. Parents are charged with providing their child(ren) with the skills of fundamental readiness and preparedness. Fundamental readiness and preparedness include; walking, talking, grooming, coping, and school readiness. Because parents are their child’s first teachers, the aforementioned elements are essential for ensuing success.

            During the formative years, it is essential to communicate the importance and value of education. Family values have the ultimate stronghold and are transferred to student achievement. Student achievement is measured by academic performance and successes, therefore bridging home and school are paramount.

Below are tips to build a foundation for academic success:

Develop a reading rich environment at home. Home is the core of education. By creating a home environment that is rich in literature, children will respond positively to this stimulus. Read with your child(ren) early and often. Incorporate texts of interest including magazines, poems, and family letters. Visit your local library or book store to support personal interests in reading.

Incorporate writing into your reading routine. Writing is an essential skill. Early writing helps strengthen fine motor skills, develop letter formation, build vocabulary, develop semantics, and syntax. Create a family journal. This journal may be used to respond to literature, write letters among household family members, or develop new vocabulary. Also, writing can be as simple as recording grocery lists or writing a review to a television program.

Recite, Review and Retain. Exposure and frequency support retention. How often have you remembered the lyrics to a song that may not be your favorite? Have you wondered why? It’s because the song is repeated frequently, therefore you retained the lyrics. Also, divide assignments into segments threes or fours. Small chunks of information are best memorized this way. Look at how your phone number and credit card numbers are divided. This is a measure to support retention. Remember, frequent exposure to an item creates familiarity and ultimately retention.

Communication.  Communicating with your child is important. Conversations illustrate your personal and specific interest in their academic success. Ask specific questions daily. What did you practice in language arts, math, science, and social studies today? Ask for examples. Your child should be able to give clear responses to these questions. If the responses are frequently unclear, reach out to the teacher. Check the school’s and district websites for academic and instructional updates. Again, the home is the core of education.

Parents, you are your child’s first and supreme teacher. Education is fluid and universal. One of the greatest gifts you can give is love and adornment for education.

 

With light and love,

 

Dr. Reginia

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Covert Mission Friday Randomness

What’s up?

Its Friiiiiiiiday, and I’m ready to swang, pick up my girls and hit the party scene…literally. I have one busy weekend ahead of me.

During my summer hiatus I started freelancing for a new e-magazine here in Atlanta called the  Atlanta Tastemaker<—-subscribe here. I’ve met some awesome moms working with this project, great friendships and supportive women.  Well tonight is the launch party and its being held at an oh so swanky rooftop venue downtown. Can’t.Wait.

I won’t be hanging out that late because I have a 6:20a flight Sat. morning. Yep, you read right…A.Flight. I’m getting on an airplane. I know you want to know where I’m going but I can’t tell. I did mention it on Twitter awhile back if anybody remembers take it to the grave and don’t expose me in the comment section. Where I’m going my face will be a surprise and while I know said person doesn’t “do” the Twitter, they do have access to the web and I’m just not sure if they are reading..so that leaves you in suspense. #youcare

Well this week I’ve tried to create a schedule and for the most part I stuck to it *slow claps*. I’m proud of myself I pushed through and completed my task list…for the most part..for most of the most part..

Lil Mama is trying to talk. I make it a point to enunciate with her while she grips the basics. She has started copying me sound for sound. Ex: I say hoT . She says oT.  I say cuP she says cuuuuuP whilst grabbing at my shirt trying to nurse. Weaning? oh yeah, that is a work in progress. Maybe I’ll vlog her new found language skills next week. That’s if I come up on some change for a new webcam…seeing we need a new roof and all..that’s a story for next week.

Lil Mama has also found her voice and makes it a point to belt out random ear piercing shrieks at her leisure.

Lil Man is adjusting to school well. Piano lessons are going well and he is playing football again. Would any one of you know why football for a bunch of 5 y.o.’s would cost $600? Anybody?

I’ve picked my camera back up! I had a shoot last weekend with baby girl twins. Marinate on the sound of that. Uber cuteness. Next week, I’ll post a few from the shoot.

I’ve been running and following my half marathon training program to a TEE. Unfortunately I had to join the gym. With Lil Man’s schedule and my husband coaching his own pee wee team on the off days, I just didn’t have the time to get in my runs like I needed to. So now, after I drop off at school I hit the gym, Lil Mama goes in the kid center. Crisis diverted.

Welp, that was long and random. Come back on Monday for the reveal of my top secret covert mission. There will be tons of pics..tons.

What’s on your agenda for the weekend? Summer is winding down, you better get it in and get it in soon. ’til Monday!

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Piano is For Girls?

I let my son take the summer off from piano. He decided to learn piano after reading a few reviews on Instrument Find. It seemed like the perfect instrument for him to learn! A few weeks ago, I asked him if he was ready to begin lessons again. Normally he is very excited about piano lessons so I was caught off guard when he said he didn’t want to play any more. I asked him why. He told me that a few of the boys in his class told him that boys only play sports and not instruments and if that was true he didn’t want to play anymore.

I told him a.) not to believe everything people tell him b.) there are lots of men that play the piano and that what he was told was not true and c.) anything a boy can do so can girls and vice versa. He smiled and said he was ready for lessons to start up again.

RECITAL

Yahhh…mommy saves the day.

Then I started thinking about the subconscious gender assignments that we give to our children. I will be honest and be the first to say I am not fond of my son playing with a kitchen, but when I really think about it what’s really wrong with that. Men cook, men play instruments, men dance. I have to self profess that I am a hypocrite. My husband cooks in a kitchen, but I won’t let my son have one, and he’s asked. What’s the big deal? Am I afraid he will turn out gay? Maybe….I’m just being honest!

In retrospect, over here we are good for saying boys do this and girls do that. Now that I really think about it, we need to stop. Maybe when we were coming up those things stood true, but now we live in a more diverse society and I think its important to teach my son to be more open minded. I mean after all, men are all over the television cooking, baking, designing clothes and interiors, and raising children….some are gay, others are straight. Doing something a “girl” does won’t make my son gay, but continuing to fill his head with such will make him just as ignorant as the little boys that told him males don’t play instruments.

What’s your take? What are you teaching your children when it comes to gender assignments?